The Paths

Thursday a friend told me that he was stick and left with two choices that is awkward to make either of it.
We then discussed about it and I told him that if there is supposed to be only one these two choices, his consideration of the consequences is of extreme importance for his final choice whatever it would be. We came to understanding that the outcomes of his decision makes a path of possible positive or negative consequences and of positive and negative I mean things in favor of his goals in life or apart from it. So eventually, what he decides would psychologically be satisfying for him. Anyhow, I’m unaware what he finally decided to do with the ways, yet I hope he would make a choice that won’t bring about his remorse in future of why he didn’t select the other path.

Back to my own thoughts, I wondered how sometimes we are so blinded by our obsessions with one or more things that it makes us forget about our pure nature, the humanitarian values and their necessity of existence or more funny than that is when the obsessions themselves become our pure nature and humanitarian values, which eventually makes us blinded to the existence of our natural needs or even somehow the people around us. That is perhaps where the Balance is most required.

I don’t know why my mental calculations just don’t stop processing the possibilities and pause its analysis to give me some sort of rest. It spontaneously jumps from subject to subject, from image to image, from present to past, from past to future. The actions, the risks, the outcome, and the relativity of my relations and so on, you just name it. It puts kind of emotional pressure that sometimes, I’m neither able to release nor bear. But then I guess it’s not just about me and that’s how everyone’s brain would do. Not considering this matter, I’m really glad that after almost a long time I’m slightly close to recover both my mental and emotional balance.

Ok, this one last thing and I promise myself I would finish moving to another subject for now! What was it! … Oh yes. This thing about Fate and Destiny, and the possible paths we might think we MUST confront. Well, based on my personal believes every person would choose his or her destiny in certain MOMENTs yet we still can’t deny the effect of other’s decisions and behaviors and their impact on our MOMENTs of choosing. What my friend and I discussed today, for instance, was part of what should be chosen between his two options when THE MOMENT arrives at him but Fate doesn’t work like that. Fate considers the other person’s options too. Before I get to my point, I should mention that firstly, you don’t know when THE MOMENT is going to arrive which means it can be any moment that you spend during your daily timeline and secondly, to the Fate, YOUR MOMENT of choosing, is a stable time and date and it IS going to arrive at you eventually. However, when THE MOMENT comes, Fate puts more than two options on the table, that is, we are going to have at least 3 options on the table (lets say we have 3 options there for not making it confusing more than it is).the first two options are yours to make , the third is for the other person involved. But What is Fates’ third option? The other person’s option is not to ask you the question that makes you give an answer, in other words, you no longer have been given the chance to reach make-the-choice part. If I want to be more clear, what I’m trying to say is THE MOMENT, which might happen to have a great effect on your future, arrives despite you can’t recognize it because you still haven’t been offered to make your choice and even if you can guess, under the condition that the third option would be applied, YOUR very MOMENT of choosing would change into an ordinary moment just like every other moment as it would simply pass by. THE MOMENT will then turn to, A Moment, which might never repeat itself again, and you will never have the opportunity to choose what is meant to be YOUR OPPORTUNITY OF CHOICE. So, sometimes when you feel like you want to evade your MOMENTs, you can ask of a higher being perhaps to make it never come forth. But then, why?
As THE MOMENT passes by, without you needed to select any path, you might temporarily feel relieved of the pressure that was stuck with your mind. But there is a possibility of you regretting the fact that YOUR MOMENT of choice was avoided and therefore you might wish to go back and have it. Alas! Time never moves back. I end this arguement the way it ends in my mind, with a simple question!
Why avoiding a confrontation, or even making a decision regardless of your truth of mind and emotions so that you leave a possibility of regretting your submitted decision?